Help understanding my ex BPD

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My gf who I believe has traits of BPD broke up with me a couple of months ago we've been in this situation for almost a year, I need help because I love her and wish this could work but it seems worst every time.

[Maito]

My gf who I believe has traits of BPD broke up with me a couple of months ago we've been in this situation for almost a year, I need help because I love her and wish this could work but it seems worst every time.

[Maito]

Back off means zero contact?

Is there anyone here? Where. Can I get anyandeer can someone explain me how the forum works? Thank you.

[Meili]

Hey Maito,

Maybe you could tell us more about your situation? What did you mean by you broke up a couple of months ago, but have been in this situation for almost a year?

How much contact do you have with her right now? What's that contact like?