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Author Topic: BPD mocking on social media - trying to resist taking revenge  (Read 391 times)
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« on: November 24, 2016, 05:51:29 PM »

Hi folks,

i am still no contact with my BPD but thought I would do a little digging online as still not heard anything from her - dont even know if the divorce papers have been filled.

The back story is my wife flying from the US-UK three weeks ago to work on our marriage but  then within an hour hitting me with divorce papers, with a glass of champagne in her hand and a big smile on her face. She then flew back the next day and not heard anything since.

I just did some research and found that her instagram profile is now open to the public as is her Twitter account (they were previously on lock down). 

Looking through her twitter page I actually saw that she was Tweeting from my bedroom as she was giving me the divorce papers.  She uploaded a picture of her smiling with the champagne in her hand "have a mimosa with me".  Tweets in the run up had her also posting and gloating about how she was going to be free etc.

I want the world to know / her friends to know what she really really is.

i want people to hear the audio recordings I have of her saying she was falsely going to report me to the police for raping her / I want people to see the picture of me covered in blood after she assaulted me / I want them to know how wicked she was to me for so many years.

Yet im powerless because I know she will report me to work and say I am harrasing her.  I know I should not have looked at anything to do with social media but what kind of parasite is she - to do what she has done to me and then present to the world how happy and wonderful she is










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« Reply #1 on: November 24, 2016, 07:02:47 PM »

When xw says something emotionally abusive, I say nothing from nothing is nothing.
 It's also a good idea to stay off social media.
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« Reply #2 on: November 24, 2016, 07:16:02 PM »

I've noticed that threatening to call the cops and report harassment seems to be a trait of BPDs. My ex and his new girlfriend whom I believe is already his ex girlfriend both said that I was harrassing them and threatening to call the cops when I wasn't doing anything. Just find it interesting that a lot of people have mentioned similar episodes.
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