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qwerty64

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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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need help to improve my relationship

« on: December 17, 2016, 07:11:53 AM »

hi i think my loved one is suffering from borderline personality disorder. is there anyway i can help him as his girl friend? i really need things to work out between us. i wont give up on him.


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ArleighBurke

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Relationship status: was married - 15 yrs
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Re: need help to improve my relationship

« Reply #1 on: December 18, 2016, 03:07:24 AM »

Hi and welcome!

I love your commitment - but there are 2 oeople in your relationshop and you can only control 1 of them. On this site you can learn skills to help but whether they are enough to keep you together we'll see... .

How old are you both? How long have you been together? Why do you suspect BPD?


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