But yeah... .i guess nobody can predict actions from nobody... .i think i will go with the waves... .if she doesn't talk to me i will not talk to her.
I was going to suggest that if you're left with no choice but to have to say something, i'd be dull and boring, act indifferent, don't share anything about your personal life. Another option if the situation warrants it would be BIFF, I have kids with my ex wife and BIFF ( Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm ) makes me a small target, it's virtually impossible for her to latch on to something that I said and create drama or conflict.