Hi Tmuprt,

I'd like to welcome you to bpdfamily. I'm sorry to hear that. Are you staying family or friends?
It helps to talk to people just like you. I seperated several times with my ex and I can understand the anxiety associated with not knowing how the future will pan out. I can relate with the uncertainty. You'll see that you fit right in here. You're not alone.
Is this the first that you seperated? Are you seeing a marriage counselor or a T ( therapist) It helps to talk. I'm looking forward to reading more of your posts.