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« on: June 19, 2017, 08:03:47 PM »

It's not what the title appears to indicate. this is for all of us masochistic codependents. https://youtu.be/7GJrcmvXBYw
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« Reply #1 on: June 19, 2017, 08:34:08 PM »

That is a good song helplessly... .I have plenty of songs as well, one I will give tonight, howling at the moon ... .hank Williams sr.
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Like an island that no flood can overwhelm
In these times we must act like the eye of the hurricane
"It takes a nation of millions to hold us back" (public enemy)
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« Reply #2 on: June 19, 2017, 09:23:45 PM »

It's not what the title appears to indicate. this is for all of us masochistic codependents. https://youtu.be/7GJrcmvXBYw

Ha!  Try 'You Know My Name' by Chris Cornell.  And yeah, it's the Bond song.  Try the lyrics.  It's the BPD game from the perspective of a BPD.

If you take a life do you know what you'll give? (BY GETTING INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP YOU JUST GAVE UP ANY CHANCE OF HEALTHY AND NORMAL FOR YOUR OWN LIFE)
Odds are you won't like what it is
When the storm arrives would you be seen with me
By the merciless eyes of deceit? (YOU AS SAVIOR AGAINST THEIR FORMER LOVER SUFFERING FROM SMEAR CAMPAIGN)

I've seen angels fall from blinding heights
But you yourself are nothing so divine
Just next in line (IDEALIZATION, DEVALUE, DISCARD)

Arm yourself because no-one else here will save you
The odds will betray you
And I will replace you (IDEALIZATION, DEVALUE, DISCARD)

You can't deny the prize it may never fulfill you (OUR PROJECTING SOMETHING INTO THEM THAT WE WANT BUT CAN NOT HAVE)
It longs to kill you
Are you willing to die? (WHAT DO YOU GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IT WILL TAKE YOUR EVERYTHING)

The coldest blood runs through my veins
You know my name

If you come inside things will not be the same (WHEN YOU BREAK NO CONTACT)
When you return to the night (THOUGHT YOU WERE GETTING THE DREAM RELATIONSHIP BACK)
And if you think you've won you never saw me change (ANOTHER DISCARD?  HOW DID THIS HAPPEN AGAIN?)
The game that we've all been playing (NO LOGIC OR ATTACHMENT OR ANYTHING PREDICTABLE HERE - IT IS CHAOS)

I've seen diamonds cut through harder men
Than you yourself but if you must pretend (OUR DENIAL OF REALITY)
You may meet your end

Arm yourself because no-one else here will save you (NOPE, NO ONE WILL EVEN KNOW HOW YOU ARE BEING ABUSED)
The odds will betray you (YEP, YOU CAN NOT WIN THIS GAME - AND WHY IS LOVE A GAME?)
And I will replace you
You can't deny the prize it may never fulfill you
It longs to kill you
Are you willing to die?
The coldest blood runs through my veins
Try to hide your hand (ESPECIALLY FOR THOSE OF US WHO WERE PHYSICALLY ABUSED OR MARRIED)
Forget how to feel (forget how to feel) (THE APATHY AND NUMBNESS THAT SETS IN TO SURVIVE)

Life is gone with just a spin of the wheel (spin of the wheel)
Arm yourself because no-one else here will save you
The odds will betray you
And I will replace you
You can't deny the prize it may never fulfill you
It longs to kill you
Are you willing to die?

The coldest blood runs through my veins
You know my name (BPD)
You know my name
You know my name
You know my name
You know my name
You know my name
You know my name
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« Reply #3 on: June 19, 2017, 10:45:34 PM »

Blank Space by Taylor Swift.
I may have shared this with you already, but it's so fitting.

Nice to meet you, where you been?
I could show you incredible things
Magic, madness, heaven, sin
Saw you there and I thought
Oh my God, look at that face
You look like my next mistake
Love's a game, want to play?
New money, suit and tie
I can read you like a magazine
Ain't it funny, rumors fly
And I know you heard about me
So hey, let's be friends
I'm dying to see how this one ends
Grab your passport and my hand
I can make the bad guys good for a weekend
So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game
'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name

Cherry lips, crystal skies
I could show you incredible things
Stolen kisses, pretty lies
You're the king baby I'm your Queen
Find out what you want
Be that girl for a month
Wait the worst is yet to come, oh no
Screaming, crying, perfect storm
I can make all the tables turn
Rose gardens filled with thorns
Keep you second guessing like
"Oh my God, who is she?"
I get drunk on jealousy
But you'll come back each time you leave
'Cause darling I'm a nightmare dressed like a daydream
So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game
'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane (Insane)
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name

Boys only want love if it's torture
Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya
Boys only want love if it's torture
Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya
So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game
'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name
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