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[Doc Holliday]

Hi everyone. I am a new member who has decided to finally seek out support from others, who may be dealing with similar issues. I am 33, engaged to a woman who is 30 and we have an amazing 18 month old son. I joined because her and I get in disagreements often, and I can't understand why. I began reading up and she exhibits many characteristics of BPD. I know she sees therapist and psych doctors often, and is on medication for which she claims is bi polar disorder. I am looking to share some experience as well as read others and find ways to cope, which will benefit her, I and most importantly our son.

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[Tattered Heart]

Welcome to the boards. HOpe you can find hope and support here. Looking forward to learning more about you and your situation.

[Doc Holliday]

Thank you, I do intend to share but a little at a time. This is a 10+ year relationship that I am just now pinning down to a likely BPD underlying. It is very stressful emotionally to be loved by someone one minute and a target of their rage another.