I could use some help

[WhyMeBPD]

I don't understand why she behaves this way.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Feeling Better]

Hi there whymeBPD

It is confusing isn't it? And so frustrating too! Why can't she see what she's doing? Why doesn't she realise how much I love her? What's wrong with her?
I'll bet all of these thoughts and more have entered into your head! They certainly did mine.

I didn't understand either, in my case it is my 35 year old son, and I was so hurt and upset about his behaviour. I was so glad when I found this site and I have gained such insight into what was happening to my son, it has really helped me to deal with and accept the situation.

The only way to understand it is to read about it and I urge you to do just that

Good luck, I hope you find the answers that you are looking for x

[wendydarling]

Hi WhyMeBPD

I'd like to join Feeling Better in welcoming you to the parents board. 

Do you feel able to share with us what's happening so we can help support you,  how is she behaving?

WDx