online cheating

[emi]

just found out that my husband of 3 years has been going on craigslist to have sexual relations with other gay men. Our relationship has been so rocky since it started and we now have a 2 year old and another on the way in Jan. Everything in my body is telling me to leave but he promises to start counseling and that hes going to start doing better (i've heard that before) I can't allow myself or my son to be around his anger outbursts and his cheating.

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[Tattered Heart]

Hi emi,

I"m so sorry that you are going through this. I cannot imagine how hurt and confused you are right now. One way to determine the seriousness of someone's apology is to see their own willingness to change. He says that he will start counseling, but has he set up the appointment?

Have you gotten yourself tested for any diseases? It's important that you keep yourself safe during this time. Until he actually begins to do the work towards recovery, you may want to consider your own sexual health and whether you should continue to have sex with him.