BPD Wife

[Chillseeker]

HI, I have a wife with BPD and im not coping very well, i have been through 3.5 years of emotional abuse and only found out lately about the condidtion and that she has it,  and i should not take her abuse personaly, but alot of damage has been done, and going home is sometime torture... .where do i start? what do i learn?

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[Mutt]

Hi Chillseeker,



I'd like to welcome you to bpdfamily. I'm sorry that you're going through a difficult time. I'm glad that you decided to join us, you're not a lone. I can relate with feeling like you're walking on landmines when you enter your family home at the end of the work day. A good place to start is by telling us what are the current issues?




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