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Southern Vet
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Hi, Now he's shown up here. I can't have friends, a life, a career. He calls my work, my friends, volunteering and anyone. I want to live away and make more money but I live in old fashioned FL. I wish I'd never come back here. How can I take my 8 yr old to Atlanta? I have family there. It's super hard in FL to leave with the 50/50 custody nonsense. And I don't have money.
If I had money this never would have happened. I hate feeling powerless.
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Hi Southern Vet
Welcome to the BPD Family
Can you share a little more of your story? I gather you moved to Florida and your ex has followed you there? I'm not sure by your post, are you divorced or still married?
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Southern Vet
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Hi Panda,
It took 4 yrs and financial ruin but we finally divorced. Having been through abuse counseling, bankruptcy, 4 attempted restraining orders (one temporarily stuck), 9 child welfare cases and another 15 police calls he instigated after we separated, what I'm looking for is just solidarity.
I'm a veteran. This hurts for a very, very, long time. Better and Listening.
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