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Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits. Practicing lawyer, Senior Family Mediator, and former Licensed Clinical Social Worker with twelve years’ experience and an expert on navigating the Family Court process.
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Southern Vet
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« on: October 02, 2017, 04:22:31 AM »

Hi, Now he's shown up here. I can't have friends, a life, a career. He calls my work, my friends, volunteering and anyone. I want to live away and make more money but I live in old fashioned FL. I wish I'd never come back here. How can I take my 8 yr old to Atlanta? I have family there. It's super hard in FL to leave with the 50/50 custody nonsense. And I don't have money.

If I had money this never would have happened. I hate feeling powerless.
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Panda39
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Gender: Female
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner’s ex
Relationship status: SO and I have been together 9 years and have just moved in together this summer.
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« Reply #1 on: October 02, 2017, 06:22:01 AM »

Hi Southern Vet

Welcome to the BPD Family    

Can you share a little more of your story?  I gather you moved to Florida and your ex has followed you there?  I'm not sure by your post, are you divorced or still married?  

How can we help you?

Panda39
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Southern Vet
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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« Reply #2 on: October 02, 2017, 11:37:54 AM »

Hi Panda,

It took 4 yrs and financial ruin but we finally divorced. Having been through abuse counseling, bankruptcy, 4 attempted restraining orders (one temporarily stuck), 9 child welfare cases and another 15 police calls he instigated after we separated, what I'm looking for is just solidarity.

I'm a veteran. This hurts for a very, very, long time. Better and Listening.

SV
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