Hi Psalm119,
Welcome and hello
I'm sorry for the pain and suffering that brings you here. And glad you found the site.
There are some
Lessons at the top of this board that might be useful.
This
article about how to take an assertive approach to a high-conflict divorce (based on Eddy's work) might also be very useful for you. Do you already have a lawyer?
In your other post, it sounds like there might be some alienation going on, with your kids having a hard time knowing who you really are. I recommend reading Dr. Craig Childress's work (he has youtube videos, and lots of material that you can find online).
It's understandable if you feel weird about posting things online. I just want to say that I didn't find a better place to ask questions. The community here changed the trajectory of my divorce in so many ways I lost count.
Collective wisdom can be really helpful when you are in the wilderness trying to find your way.
Either way, we understand.
You're not alone.
LnL
