Hi Coastered,How are things going?
Wanted to follow up on a few of the previous post by sharing these readings:
Supporting Your BPD Partner Behaviors: How it Feels to Have BPDBeing An Emotional CaregiverIt helps a lot to read and review this material regularly to keep your own thoughts and goals focused.
It is extremely important that you keep your own emotions under control so when these storms hit you are not as thrown off balance. It is by no means easy, but it can get better!
Oh yes, you are not alone! Many people here have similar experiences and it is quite a relief to be understood and supported, especially when many of the people in our regular lives cannot see or comprehend what we are experiencing.
wishing you the best, pearl.