You’re that makes sense, guess my ego is still a bit in shambles.
thats understandable. gotta be kind and gentle with yourself. it wont help your ego to compare yourself with her or anyone. what will help are things like surrounding yourself with loved ones, getting back into old hobbies/skills that perhaps went by the wayside, and one piece of advice i got was to pour myself into new ones... .learning new hobbies/skills is a great confidence booster.
I guess I’m still grieving the relationship, I’m hoping that part will go away soon, I don’t think the holidays help.
the holidays can be the toughest. weve got your back here.
it will help you feel more connected to join in the threads of others, too; you and those you join.