BPDpartner, is she open to getting treatment? The outlook can depend on the person's understanding and acceptance of the disorder.
It is exhausting to be the non - big hug to you. I hope you know that we're here to support you in the ways we can. The discovery was overwhelming, but since then, I've been able to vent, I've learned about resources, and I've found my center again, and I feel stronger. Let us know how we can help.
