Hi and welcome.
Wow, that is a lot to be dealing with. How are you holding up?
We have had guys here with similar stories so know you are not alone. At some point you may want to post on our Family Law board regarding your impending court date. Here is the link:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=10.0 In the meantime I moved your thread here to the Bettering board as this is where we focus on tools that can help calm situations and improve communication regardless of relationship status.
Staying away from her while you have pending criminal charges is smart. You also want to consider how this will affect your relationship going forward. Will she file charges against you for something else one day? Again, we have had men work through this sort of issue before so you are in the right place.
my concern is that she has called me and threatened suicide before I don’t know if I am man enough to take her back if she wants to work it out MAC
Can you tell us more about this, specifically what you mean when you say you don't think you are man enough to take her back? I am not sure what being a man has to do with taking someone back in a volatile relationship like this means (I am female BTW
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) and I want to understand.
I hope to hear more from you soon. In the meantime, we have lots to read here. Check out the topics tacked to the top of the board. Also feel free to jump in and post in other threads as well.
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