Happy Valentine’s Day everyone. Ugh.
So for the last month, me and my PWBPD have been planning for me to drive 7 hours to visit him this weekend, while he is away at work. We’ve both really been looking forward to it and just the other day, he was saying that he missed me so, so much he couldn’t stand it.
Well, cut to this past Wednesday night, we’re talking on the phone. He says something stupid during our conversation, I get really mad. We have a little fight. He messages after with a sort-of apology but I was still really mad. The next day (yesterday), not a word from him. Nothing. I reached out a few times. I’ve sort of been sensing a split coming for a few other little reasons but it’s not uncommon for this to happen after a fight.
I messaged at the end of the night and was trying to practise my empathy and patience and I was just said:
“I’m guessing you don’t feel like talking.. That's okay...I wish we could undo last night. I know I got really mad. I don't want to get mad like that anymore. I’m working on it, I promise.
I was really hoping to hear from you but it would be silly to keep calling so I'll stop. Maybe we'll sleep it off and feel better in the morning. ”
So this morning, the day I’m supposed to leave, he just sends me a text that says “have a good Valentine’s Day”.
I’m supposed to be getting in my car and leaving to see him in like 3 hours. WTH should I do? If I drive all the way there, my biggest fear would be him just telling me to turn around and go home. Anyway, I think we’ll both be really disappointed if we don’t see each other this weekend and I don’t know what to do. I suppose I could see what happens today and maybe drive up tomorrow but like...?
Please
