Thank you again, once removed. The reasons you give for not contacting her are the same ones that have stopped me from doing it. 95% of me knows its ill-advised, and the challenge is fighting that remaining 5%. That last bit contains a lot of darkness. I'll continue to work on it.
we can talk you down. when my ex broke up with me, i was a total basket case. i was also desperate to act.
in each case, i had people close to me that talked me down, and gave me words that really helped. that was nine years ago now, but to this day, im really grateful i didnt act.
i understand this is a different circumstance, that the two of you are on good terms, and that there may be cases in which making a move is a good idea. we support you in your goal of reconciliation.
im just saying that i know the anxiety very well, and we can help you through it.
