Wondering if I’m a codependent

[Awareness]

Looking for understanding, help and suggestions

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[Gemsforeyes]

Dear Awareness-

Welcome to our community.  Perhaps watch the you tube video by Julia Kristina that asks “Am I Codependent”.  I found that way more helpful than reading through a list of coDe traits.

And then maybe come back and talk.  This is a safe space for you.

Warmly,
Gemsforeyes

[formflier]

I'm glad you found us and I'm very curious to learn more about what got your started on your journey to figure out the codependency question.

Please share more when you get time.

I'll check back soon.

Best,

FF

[Cat Familiar]

Lots of us who’ve found ourselves in relationships with people with BPD are codependents or caretakers.

Here’s a good article on codependency

I’m going to move your thread to the Bettering board where you can learn strategies to help you in your relationship.

Tell us more about what’s going on with you and how we can help.