BPD Violence and Threats

[Daryl Dixon]

I live in fear of my partner. She is a physically violent and abusive BPD. She has a long history of it. What scares me the most is that every time I try to break up with her she threatens to call the cops and hurt herself and blame me. She has done it twice and I spent 12 days in jail over Christmas. The charges were eventually dropped as there was no evidence and she admitted to the court she made it all up.

I can't get away from her or make her leave. I'm too scared of the police here. They always take the side of the woman. See the attached text she sent me, last time I tried to break up with her.

https://photos.google.com/photo/AF1QipP142Qz4-yrl-zH__-NxSXAsvl16Fw0DGHcn5OI


DD

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[xadingo]

Do you know any police personally?  Or know anyone else who does?  I'm sure this isn't the first female domestic aggressor they've heard of and they might have some good advice on how to set it up for you to make an exit smoothly...  At least from the police side of things.  Your partner is probably a different matter.