Hi Fishtail!
Just want to say hi and welcome
Thanks for introducing yourself. I'm glad you're here.
I can relate to so much. My H and I are very compatible, also married for 7 years, and we have fun together. He has a BPD mom and bears some BPD traits, if not BPD. Things got to a really bad point last year when I tried to set a boundary with his mom. We started marriage counseling, which is on hold at the moment due to the pandemic.
Does anything in particular trigger his rages? How is counseling working?