Nathan27, welcome. You're in the right place! I've learned so much from others here. I feel stronger and have more clarity about how to set boundaries and truly help, and I hope we can do that for you, too.

It sounds like there is a diagnosis, is that right? Is your partner seeking help? Do you feel it's effective?
Would you like to share something that's happened recently and talk through the layers of it?
We're here.
pj