Hi All,
My Daughter is 23 and recently diagnosed as emotionally unstable personallity disorder.
To explain how she is , is a very long story but i will try to give a brief insight .
Our daughter does not talk at all, if you try to talk to her she just nods and agrees, she drinks too much, she takes drugs, she takes a lot of prescription drugs. she lies to us all the time . She has 5 times now ended up in A&E for overdoses the most rescent time a month ago which is when mental health told me her diagnosis.
we had a plan that she needed to distance herself from people that encourage her to drink or take drugs and she agrees but within a day is back with them.
i found out saturday she had taken a loan for £3000 with an 85% interest rate i have managed to call that company and cancel it with the agreement from my daughter that she pays us back. im not overly optimistic .
At 7 she told me she was going for a walk with a friend but now at 12.30 she is not home she has popped to friends house were she is drinking and probably taking drugs whilst i am sitting here stressing about paying this money back.
Does it get any better ? I am literally so stressed out , shes secretive, doesnt tell us anything about her life , we always find out bad stuff from other people, i sometimes feel like her suicide attempts are punishment ? and live in fear of her doing it again ?
she says she taking her medication but heavily drinks on it . she not keeping up with her mental health appointments, her behaviour is becoming riskier .
I have a husband and 2 other children in the house and i just find since she moved back in 5 weeks ago its all about her and it effecting everyone in my house because you just never know whats coming next.
sorry just needed to Rant