Hello Hearsewitch and a warm welcome to the boards

Interactions and relationships with pwBPD are complicated, to say the least -- living with an ex wBPD fits the bill for sure.
How long were the two of you together? What led to the breakup?
Do you jointly own the house?
And tell me a little more about this:
he always gets scammed financially by them and I have to help him out. What do I do?
what does it look like for you to
have to help?
Fill us in whenever works best for you;
kells76