Tony,
You are such a tremendous person. Simply put: a really great guy. Your new gf, any woman actually, is lucky to have you in their life.
I was reflecting on the responses you received here on the board while you were going through some of those experiences. The one that really comes to mind is the psych ward. I don't know how many people gave you such solid advice about her motives and intentions while she was in the cuckoo house. Yet, you stuck by her knowing that you had to do the "right" thing by her. And when you saw it was time to go - you left.
You did what you had to do. Just like so many others at bpdfamily.com. Going through the same pain that you've been through before. Going through the same motions that you've gone through before. All the while hearing from the side-lines to "move on" "let go" "take care of yourself".
You are such a selfless individual who deserves a special place in heaven. With a bunch of women who are worthy of you (& you of them).
8) :-*