He's stopped contacting me

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I haven't been on here in a while, not really thought about him for a while. I miss him sometimes, but I don't ever want to be with him again. I have not talked to him for about 2 months. He's not said anything. I messaged him a couple of times on facebook, but he's just blanking me. I guess it's all for the best, I'm glad in a way. But I'm just so very sad that I don't think we'll ever be able to have a mature and honest conversation about us, and everything that happened between us over 3 years. It's heartbreaking when I really sit and think about what has happened. I don't think I allow myself to think about it anymore.

[wee_one]

I haven't been on here in a while, not really thought about him for a while. I miss him sometimes, but I don't ever want to be with him again. I have not talked to him for about 2 months. He's not said anything. I messaged him a couple of times on facebook, but he's just blanking me. I guess it's all for the best, I'm glad in a way. But I'm just so very sad that I don't think we'll ever be able to have a mature and honest conversation about us, and everything that happened between us over 3 years. It's heartbreaking when I really sit and think about what has happened. I don't think I allow myself to think about it anymore.

[josiejo61]

I haven't been on here in a while, not really thought about him for a while. I miss him sometimes, but I don't ever want to be with him again. I have not talked to him for about 2 months. He's not said anything. I messaged him a couple of times on facebook, but he's just blanking me. I guess it's all for the best, I'm glad in a way. But I'm just so very sad that I don't think we'll ever be able to have a mature and honest conversation about us, and everything that happened between us over 3 years. It's heartbreaking when I really sit and think about what has happened. I don't think I allow myself to think about it anymore.

Dear wee_one,

I can relate completely.  I am experiencing intense sadness and missing the parts of my ex that were normal.  I almost emailed him today but made myself resist the urge. 

[Surnia]

 

Good you have some moments where you are more detached with your ex. good to hear. I would even stop to contact him on facebook. After all what happened... .  

How goes your life beside him? Are you busy and sometimes with friends? What about new projects?

[HarmKrakow]

I haven't been on here in a while, not really thought about him for a while. I miss him sometimes, but I don't ever want to be with him again. I have not talked to him for about 2 months. He's not said anything. I messaged him a couple of times on facebook, but he's just blanking me. I guess it's all for the best, I'm glad in a way. But I'm just so very sad that I don't think we'll ever be able to have a mature and honest conversation about us, and everything that happened between us over 3 years. It's heartbreaking when I really sit and think about what has happened. I don't think I allow myself to think about it anymore.

It's a normal human reaction to think about it from time to time. All you will learn in the coming future is to give those thoughts a 'healthy' place in your life