Leaving to undecided board.

[Wishful thinking]

Think this is all i can do for now.

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[Vindi]

do you want to talk more about this? choices take time and its not an easy road, the more you post, I think the more things come out and the knowing you are not alone feeling, gets lifted.

Hope to hear from you again!

[Somewhere]

Dunno that THIS or THAT board or Whatever Board is often even the issue.

I guess it is in terms of the relationship with (whatever)BPD(whatever), but it is not like that makes any difference, anyway.

Only person ANY of us can work on or fix or whatever is US.  Not whatever them is, anyway.

So whether you Stay, Come, or Go . . .  Fix you first . . .  that takes care of [y]our problem(s).  And as they as in Al-Anon, that makes things 50% at the very least.

Best to you wherever you find yourself.