This might be a good place to start
www.nashvillepsychotherapyinstitute.org/directoryThen just do a ring around and ask questions
Books such as Essential family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder, and other online guides, can give give tips as to what questions to ask
Due to confidentiality reasons, members prefer not to divulge their locations, as such it is probably not advisable to request personal recommendations. Endorsement of specific Therapists is also not site policy.
Take your time, You may even have to try a few out before you find the one that works