Deep Sadness

[wb1233]

I think it finally dawned on me today that my uBPDexgf is mentally ill. I feel so sad for her. I know she didn't do or say the things she did on purpose. It's like expecting a blind man to see. We need to understand it this way. I know her past and sympathize with pain she went through. I know she tried really hard to keep our relationship together. She just didn't have the tools. Let's forgive them and pray for them. And forgive ourselves as well... .  

[Newton]

wb1233... .  acceptance of the facts you described in your post is the key to our healing process