Now I know she is insane

[Slo_Learner]

Hi All,

I have not been on this board for over 3 years... .  and yunno what happened? LOL

I have not seen or heard of my ex wife in nearly 4 years - who is a uNBPD (she was diagnosed by the local mental health services who actually contacted me after she got arrested for assaulting me - they wanted to counsel me to ensure I would never go back - they deemed her as very dangerous)

I am in a happy relationship and last week, out of the blue, she called me and wanted to get things off her chest. She wanted to meet up for a coffee and apologise... .  

However, she was EXACTLY the same as before - she has just ended a 3 year relationship and all she wanted was for me to have sex with her! LOL LOL LOL

She actually had a go at me and actually asked me to kiss her and sleep with her - when I declined, she pointed at herself and said 'you mean you dont want this'... .  

I said no, finished my drink and left - she text me later and asked me to dinner... .  

She is so sick - and my current GF thinks it hilarious (but I know how dangerous it really is)

[TheDude]

... .  and my current GF thinks it hilarious... .  

Well, the good news is that the current GF most likely isn't Borderline, based on her reaction. 

[Slo_Learner]

No, definitely not! I am so careful nowadays - to make sure.

I did however, thank my ex for the experience as it has put everything else into perspective.

I knew she would re-surface as the Mental Health staff warned me - they were right.

I have been recycled by her before but can now laugh at her ego.

[officer1618]

"You mean you don't want this?" is a direct quote I heard 1000 times from my ex while I tried to seperate from her. She would come around when she was fighting with her boyfriend/fiancée <wink wink... .  you know... .  the one she didn't have... .  the one I must have been making up... .  the one whose clothes I found in our bedroom... .  yeah, that one> and she would try to test the chance to splice reality to pick up like nothing ever happened. Whenever I would tell her to go away all I ever heard in that weepy, save-me, puppy eyed, "You mean <sniff sniff>... .  y'you don't want this?" Then when I ignored her plea the persecutory parent showed up instantly and followed the Borderline formula with "Whatever... .  I already told everyone what a jerk you were and how I'm doing everything possible to hold this marriage together... .  but you don't want it. Hope ya don't go crazy if I move on". God, Father in Heaven, thank you for deliverance.