Blocking DOES help

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

Wanted to say THANKS to all of you on these boards that helped me make the decision to NC and block my exBPD.

It's only been 2 days but, I feel so much lighter on all levels.

It really is a blessing to have the ability to NC. I never thought I could do it and I'm doing it.

Again, it's only been two days but it's a great feeling and a great start.

Granted, I am still afraid of the possible "wrath" but, can't focus on what might happen.

THANK YOU AGAIN all on this board.

[MakeItHappen]

Wanted to say THANKS to all of you on these boards that helped me make the decision to NC and block my exBPD.

It's only been 2 days but, I feel so much lighter on all levels.

It really is a blessing to have the ability to NC. I never thought I could do it and I'm doing it.

Again, it's only been two days but it's a great feeling and a great start.

Granted, I am still afraid of the possible "wrath" but, can't focus on what might happen.

THANK YOU AGAIN all on this board.

[slimmiller]

Good for you! Maintain it at all costs. I envy you, I have three beautiful precious children with mine and the youngest is almost 7. 11 more years and I can go NC on her completely. Now thats not exactly possible. God, saying that sounds like an eternal condemnation to Hell. But still someday it will be so

[trouble11]

Good for you.  I recently blocked all calls and texts.  Funny thing was, prior to blocking, every time I heard my text notification I was having mini panic/anxiety attacks.  I tried changing the notification sound, but that didn't help.  The second I blocked him I could hear it and not have a physical response.  It was great!

[MakeItHappen]

Good for you.  I recently blocked all calls and texts.  Funny thing was, prior to blocking, every time I heard my text notification I was having mini panic/anxiety attacks.  I tried changing the notification sound, but that didn't help.  The second I blocked him I could hear it and not have a physical response.  It was great!

AMEN to that. Every time a text comes in, I go through the same thing. I'm hoping(fingers crossed), that the block on FB will be enough. It's costs a bit of $ to block on the telephone.

What an interesting process this ALL is.

Thanks again ALL. We must ALL be strong! 

[trouble11]

I could only kinda block FB as I raise German Shepherds and have a page for them.  My exBPD is fairly weak, I think once he tries my phone and gmail and gets nothing he won't persist. 

[MakeItHappen]

I could only kinda block FB as I raise German Shepherds and have a page for them.  My exBPD is fairly weak, I think once he tries my phone and gmail and gets nothing he won't persist. 

fingers crossed. i too have other "pages" on that silly little thing called, facebook. so far, so good.

good luck.