FOG is finally lifting

[stevenq]

Today is 11weeks of NC with my BPD ex gf and I can honestly say the FOG is lifting fast! Ive managed to only remember the negatives fr that relationship and look at the whole pix! If i would have stayed w her she would have done perm damage to myself which would have effected my own 2 kids! I dont miss the constant texts, phone calls, the jealousies, etc! I dont really know if shes w someone new after 11weeks but i know she wont change for the best if she is! Do i want closure? No i really dont. Im proud of myself for detaching myyself fr her!

[chuckstrong]

StevenQ

So jealous! you are doing great... .  I would love 11 weeks NC and a FOG lift

I am beside myself she hasn't texted me since Friday after a nightmarish last 5.5 months of recycle/nc/recycle/nc over and over... .  We are like old pals

now I cant tell you how much it sucks.

Congrats man keep it up!

Chuck

[stevenq]

Hey Chuck! I feel you! U stay strong and remember life is too short to be miserable! We deserve to be happy!