make the madness stop...

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

I'm done with all of it and he is more of an annoyance these days than anything.  I have nothing to say to him.  I don't block him on my phone because then he drives 2 hours to show up and try and force a conversation.  That being said, I allow the texts to come unblocked, but don't respond-deleting as quickly as i can.

This has been a 6 yr relationship with the last 2 pure hell. Not really looking for answers just absolutely needing to vent.

[GettinStronger]

oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

I'm done with all of it and he is more of an annoyance these days than anything.  I have nothing to say to him.  I don't block him on my phone because then he drives 2 hours to show up and try and force a conversation.  That being said, I allow the texts to come unblocked, but don't respond-deleting as quickly as i can.

This has been a 6 yr relationship with the last 2 pure hell. Not really looking for answers just absolutely needing to vent.

[LuckyEscapee]

oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

The answer is no. It is always all about them. Sometimes it is unbelievable that they expect us to be at their whim after all they have put us through. 

[Discarded26]

oh my goodness - can they ever get enough of hearing themselves be philosophical? can they ever get enough of pushing and pushing someone to the brink of insanity?  can they ever see that they have FINALLY driven someone so far away that there is no possible way the relationship could ever continue (with or without therapy). 

The answer is no. It is always all about them. Sometimes it is unbelievable that they expect us to be at their whim after all they have put us through. 

Yep and still put us through, don't know whats worse, the silence or getting breadcrumbs. Either way it hurts  :'(