Another example. She may say "I don't know how a man with your intelligence level and at your age could behave the way you do". This may have been prompted by her asking me to dinner and me saying i dont think that is a good idea. I just want to recognize it for what it is. Been in that fog so long sometime hard to see insults for what they are. I think im seeing it more clearly now but still susceptible to the FOG if you know what I mean.
My put downs are. That I'm happy and everything with a new person.
Sure is strange