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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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Author Topic: good quotes? time to find your inner Jack Handy :)  (Read 353 times)
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« on: March 05, 2013, 08:57:18 PM »

i saw this quote yesterday and was like YEEEEES! hopefully it helps someone else too. please do post some quotes i'd love to read things that have helped others with a broken     Smiling (click to insert in post)

"Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions"

--Will Smith

p.s. i know it's will smith, hah, apparently the fresh prince of bell aire is quite philosophical Smiling (click to insert in post) (at least his wife is quite the intellectual)
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« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2013, 09:06:37 PM »

Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.  Judge Judy.
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« Reply #2 on: March 05, 2013, 09:23:58 PM »

Don't pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.  Judge Judy.

LMAO !  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post) Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2013, 10:50:01 PM »

Everything will be okay

in the end.

If it's not okay,

it's not the end.


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« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2013, 06:57:11 AM »

Here's the quote that got me through my split with my BPDh:

Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.”

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« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2013, 10:24:12 AM »

" in this moment, I choose to value myself more than the other person"

"Confrontation can not continue without my participation"

"Letting go is the natural release that follows the realization that holding on hurts"

"you must weed the wrong people out of your life, if you don't want to miss the rights ones when they come your way"
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« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2013, 04:48:31 PM »

ilovelifequotes.com/?page_id=11

I find this site has a lot of really good ones.
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« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2013, 05:34:11 PM »

“The human mind isn't a terribly logical or consistent place. Most people, given the choice to face a hideous or terrifying truth or to conveniently avoid it, choose the convenience and peace of normality. That doesn't make them strong or weak people, or good or bad people. It just makes them people.”

― Jim Butcher, Turn Coat

I found this while trying to find a favourite quote on denial which basically says that denial keeps us safe from harm; it keeps us safe from facing the unbearable pain of the truth... .  or something like that.
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« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2013, 09:59:30 PM »

If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves.~Thomas Edison

Education is not the learning of facts but the training of the mind to think.~Albert Eistein
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“Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.” ~Jacob M. Braude
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« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2013, 10:05:59 PM »

My favourite is from Ghandi. " Live simply so others may simply live. ". Puts things in perspective for me.
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