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Author Topic: he contacted me after a month of NC - I have a bad feeling  (Read 457 times)
DepressIsolatedMeg
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« on: April 06, 2013, 07:12:31 PM »

so today I texted him and asked when I can get rest of my stuff back, he said he will contact me next week. I said "ok" and expected the conversation would be ended there. He followed with a "Smiling (click to insert in post)" which totally creeped me out.

And an hour later he text me again, said he misses me. I ignored it.

Just now he text me again, and asked what I am up to. I ignored it again.

I just feel scared but I can't tell what it is. I have a feeling that if I keep ignoring him, he is going to tell me sth to make me cry/feel guilty. I manage very well so far after went on NC, I WILL NOT GO BACK to him. I was just thinking about how I was when I was with him - he definitely brought out the worst in me and I don't want to go back to that state.

How do you guys deal with a situation like this?
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« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2013, 07:22:08 PM »

Keep it controlled and non-emotive.  Best advice I read here was to be as boring as hell! Smiling (click to insert in post)

Keep posting here so you can people to help you feel strong.

Best of luck x
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« Reply #2 on: April 06, 2013, 08:33:09 PM »

Boring, no info, and no 'feel good' worked for me.

Take care 
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