What will she say about me?

[Depression = 72% of members]

I am just wondering will my ex tell people I was violent or just her next partner? My ex had a daughter about 1 and a half and her ex boyfriend used to visit the child when I was not their. Anyway she would be like it's good he wants to see their child, then the next she would say how much she hated him taking their daughter and using her against her etc. She always told me he was violent and text me once when he was over saying how they just had an argument and he tried to hit her.

I was thinking how can he TRY to hit her? If he wanted to hit her he surely could? I sort of know who this guy is and seriously doubt he was violent. I asked her if he was and she would say just leave it,her favourite phrase when questioned.

Anyway is she likely to suggest I was?

[jj2121]

I am just wondering will my ex tell people I was violent or just her next partner? My ex had a daughter about 1 and a half and her ex boyfriend used to visit the child when I was not their. Anyway she would be like it's good he wants to see their child, then the next she would say how much she hated him taking their daughter and using her against her etc. She always told me he was violent and text me once when he was over saying how they just had an argument and he tried to hit her.

I was thinking how can he TRY to hit her? If he wanted to hit her he surely could? I sort of know who this guy is and seriously doubt he was violent. I asked her if he was and she would say just leave it,her favourite phrase when questioned.

Anyway is she likely to suggest I was?

[blecker]

Anyway is she likely to suggest I was?

If it suits her plan for her new object, then probably.

But most importantly is that you were not and that you know that and that everyone who knows you well also knows that.

Gossip, no matter how damaging, has always been used to manipulate, contain or change outcomes.

In the end, when all is said and done, it seldom does.

[Mightyhammers]

She told me on a few occasions that her ex 'put her in hospital' by getting violent once - do I believe it anymore? maybe not, and I dread to think what shes been telling people about me... .  

[HarmKrakow]

Im pretty sure my ex tells me im filth of the eart, not to be trusted and it's a miracle that he can look himself in the mirror without killing himself