PTSD and a BPD

[vanillaswirl]

If someone has PTSD from former abusive relationship and they are now with someone with BPD who blames all of their problems on them, what kind of help/therapy should they look for? Note that BPD says they have no problem at all

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[Somewhere]

what kind of help/therapy should they look for?

Help with reading the EXIT sign over the door?

Note that BPD says they have no problem at all

"they" do not have a problem.  

It is working for them.

You have the problem.

First time a T told me that, it was a bit of shock.  But now I get it.

[vanillaswirl]

You know, I told my husband once the only reason he never really ends it, is that if I wasn't around anymore, he would have to be responsible for his own problems instead of saying everything was my fault

[Take2]

You know, I told my husband once the only reason he never really ends it, is that if I wasn't around anymore, he would have to be responsible for his own problems instead of saying everything was my fault

That's brilliant... .  !   although I imagine it did not go over very well... .