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I cannot tell you how much this board has meant to me and how much help I have received here. Thank you all so much.
Over the last couple days I have found a new direction for my life and I am so VERY excited and I just pray it works out. I am hoping to go to a seminar in Seattle in June to learn to screen kids and teens for dyslexia and then go through an on-line course to learn to tutor them.
It all started because I think my middle daughter has dyslexia. It has not been a huge problem because I homeschool her and I can work around it, unlike a classroom setting. I decided to go on-line and find some resources to help me teach her now that she is in Jr High level work. What I found fascinated me and I started to get excited. Then I found out that I could become a tutor and have my own small business that would enable me to keep teaching my two youngest.
I called our local school district and found out that there is no one closer than the big city an hour away that tutors dyslexic students. I live between two school districts and could easily work with both. This would be so beneficial to our community.
Now for the big question- money. It will cost about $3000 to go to the 6 day seminar (equivalent to a semester of college level work in 6 days!) and another $2000 for the on-line training. At that point I would be certified to screen (not diagnose) and tutor kids and teens. I have no money myself- we are barely making it as it is. I have been surfing websites looking for grants or scholarships, but most of what is out there is for a 2 or 4 year college. I need some direction in where to look for grant money, or something to help me pay for the training.
In the past I would have decided it was not meant to be and forget it. This time I am telling myself that this is something I really want and to keep asking and digging until I get it.
There is another new direction. H is coming home tomorrow. He is doing really well and actually looking for part time work. I told him he has used up all his chances and this is the last time. If he blows it this time there is no coming back home. By that I mean if he gets abusive again. Everyone blows it occassionally.
I have peace about him coming home and I am really excited about a new career. Wish me luck!
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I wish you a luck from all my
Newer research on dyslexia is quite interesting, I can understand your fascination about this. Furthermore in our letter/script based world it is hard to have dyslexia, so its something really important to master this. It would be a really great opportunity for you.
I keep my fingers crossed for you!
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Good for you, Mara2! I wish you well in finding some grants. And, I wish you well in your education!
Warm regards!
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The Sunshine Lady is a foundation ran by Jimmy Buffet's wife. You can write a letter to them explaining your circumstances and they will give you money. No Joke. I use to work as a financial counselor and a co-worker's client got $5,000 for a car. They give to individuals who are working hard and need a hand up. I called them once for a client of mine who was losing her home to foreclosure and they said, yep! Send in her letter! We'll take a look!
Good luck!
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Hey, thanks! I will give them a try.
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