if you ask me details how the fights abuses started etc I can't really give any to you because all those stuff are like happening behind a veil.
Simona, you are so right here. You know that there is something there but you can't quite flesh out the detail of what it is.
For me it was/is the same way. If I now try to remember bad things of our 10 yrs-r/s I can only remember the past year.
Makes me think like things maybe weren't too bad before ... . believe me: things were definitely bad.
Yes VS. I guess we have to get to the point where we believe that there is a problem here and then we don't need to concretise things so much with specific examples.
Thanks both for your replies. I wish you both well.