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I'm really kind of upset now. I decided to check the dating app I've been using for a month and I see she's checked my profile! I am so upset! Why! What is the point of even being on there! Her profile even states she's looking for double dates... . more than likely she'll use this as an avenue to cheat. But just HAD to click all through my profile. I had kept this a secret from her but now she knows... . and I'm bothered by it immensely. I mean I am so pissed right now I can't even sleep. Is this keeping tabs on me? Checking to see who I am talking to?
I'm going thru some strong emotions right now... .
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My guess is that she is on the site to get attention. She might also be wanting to get a reaction out of you to get some contact and feel the validation of making you jealous. Just block her and move on. Let the emotions happen and then pass.
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I go to look again this morning and she's blocked me. But I'm still feeling paranoid. You're probably right about the attention seeking. Guess she really will do anything for the attention.
Still don't see the point of it for her too be on there.
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