How do your BPD's recount the stories of past break ups?

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Hi,

Just a general question.

I wondered how your BPD partners have described the endings of past r/s's?

My b/f (ex now I suppose) told me varying accounts of how each r/s ended. He sided on his victim role of course.

The same r/s break up would be described differently on different occasions.

It always confused me. Did he not remember? Did it depend on his mood when he re-told it? Was he not accepting his responsibility in it?

About his r/s before me he initially said that she had ended it but a few days later he said he hoped she "wouldn't stalk him"... . weird if she ended it? Since then he alternated it to being "mutual" or "she was still in love with her ex" or "she wouldn't commit" and he "couldn't see it going anywhere"

Am curious... .

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