Yes He is moving out

[flowergnome]

So I talked to uBPDbf last night as planned and told him to move out.  It was so easy!  He said he was still planning to after our last fight/breakup 2 weeks ago.  What a relief.  There is still a possibility he could have a change of heart or get clingy in the next month (he said he'd be out by the end of the month) but I think the reason breaking up is so much easier now is because the passion is basically gone from our relationship.  I wish I hadn't waited this long, but since I did it's easier... .

We're discussing what furniture he's taking with him.  He still wanted to hug and talk about how we loved each other last night, I was fairly resistant to it. 

[Clearmind]

I'm pleased you are feeling good about this. How can you work on detaching until he does move?