an update

[Wanda]

 

every time i come on here i seen new people so for the ones that are new  

 as some of you know my husband left his job for a better job two months ago they just kept him for what he needed and let him go. now he worked at the other company 14 years.

I am like oh great! well so far two months later he is still off work, but looking due to his age he doesn't want over the road he is in trucking. can't blame him, but yes he is driving me crazy. my only salvation is my work. i work now full time so i am gone all the time and do my own thing. Things aren't to bad no rages just annoyance on his part. he wants to know everything that goes on, now that he is off he is bored and driving us crazy! following us around .I hope he gets a job soon... .

HOpe everyone eles is doing ok and hanging in there.    wanda

i always wonder if he is doing ok now can you imagine how he would be if he was getting treatment... . but that won't happen.  

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[Chosen]

Hi Wanda and nice to hear from you. 

I'm sorry about your H's situation- is he actively looking for a job, or is he just hanging about the house?  Can't imagine it's easy for you though... . with him having so much time on his hands... .

Just want to say, although there is nothing enviable about anybody's situation here, I always just wished my un diagnosed H could improve and be more like yours in due course... . !

[Wanda]

HEllo choosen... .

yes believe it or not he is actively looking just real picky in what he gets,.  he is also one that has problem with changes  some days he gets a little down but others he is ok. I work in the afternoon  so till i go to work he drives me crazy... . and towards the end of the week he has no where to go, so he stays home  and drives me crazy   but i can say i haven't seen any rages just a husband driving his wife crazy... . glad i work full time. although in July  i do have a week off a vacation i think that is what they call it ... . i hope he has a job by then... .