Need to vent

[Sincere]

Since my gfBPD moved back to Oklahoma last year things haven't been great for her.  Last month she admitted that she was struggling, money, family, back and knee pain, sleeplessness and feeling like she needed to go back on her anti depressants.  Two weeks ago I said good night and stopped texting her.  she had reached a point where if I asked or mentioned something via text such as missing watching a movie with her, etc 

she completely ignored it and wouldn't respond.  she did this with two other topics as well.  So I figured she would text when she wasn't so busy.  Nothing for two weeks.  Now she is posting things on facebook about "rearranging" furniture in her house and now starting on people in her life.  She even posted an article on "the 20 signs of a toxic relationship".

I'm not responding to anything I kinda figure she is just in one of those states, but she knows I would never abandon her.

Hearing about all of your similar experiences help me through these moments.

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