talked to ex today

[simplyasiam]

 ex said shes been missing me but only after i said it frist

said shes in conusling again/ told conusler about missing me

said its hard to be without me at time

i asked if we could every work this out, said she has to work on her frist

i asked how shes been doing she put her head down and wouldnt really answer

she asked how its been going with my new g/f

it was nice and scary at same time seeing her.

but at least she made the contact has she pulled in know i was there and started talking to me.

i know i have to be careful here no matter what she want... . just to say hello or to make sure i still care.

would like to know what any of you think plz

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[motherof1yearold]

I think the fact she wouldn't answer about how she is doing may be an indication that she has been not doing well, aka out of control since you left her and got a new girlfriend.

May I ask why you are still seeing her in person since the split?

[simplyasiam]

hello motherof1yearold

i was driving she was behind i wasnt sure it was her becouse she was in a diffrent car i didnt know. i pulled into a store parking lot she pulled in as well and parked close to me. she ask how i was doing and said she need to use atm in the store. it was a chance happing. i know bot of us could have walked away from it.

i wanted to talk to her wanted to her things she said to me. i hope she gets helps hope when can be together again.

[simplyasiam]

she was following me when driving i pulled into s parking lot she pulled in behind me i went into the store for a minute when i came she was parked close to car i looked at her she asked... . how are you?  and we talked from there.

to answer you  motherof1yearold, i talked to her becouse i want her back

i wanted to her she missed me

i heared the the i wanted be and today im still where i was before im no closer to being ok or with her

im no worse off then i was before and i do see now after thinking it over and talking to friends about it thats shes may not really be doing better and may still be living the same way same before.