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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: July 15, 2013, 12:59:49 PM »

Identifying your Emotions 

There are 100+ emotions according to Parrots' Classification of Emotions (2001). Learning to identify our emotions is important, when we understand what emotions we are feeling we can respond more appropriately to them.



How do we do this?

You can practice identifying your emotions anytime by asking yourself throughout your day how you are feeling. If a situation arises that upsets you, stop what you're doing and ask "what's really going on here? Am I angry, am I disappointed, hurt, etc... .     Stopping and asking yourself these questions will help set aside the emotion and bring in logic. This practice helps bring you into wisemind where you can better access appropriate reactions. 

Here are a few benefits  to learning identify your emotions

1. You can quickly express yourself with clear communication of your needs.

2. Helps you stay within the moment, or more present with situations you encounter.

3. Identifying unpleasant emotions can help you move through them quickly.

4. Identifying pleasant emotions can help you enjoy them more fully.

5. Creates more honesty with yourself, there's a smaller chance of self-deception.

6. Creates independence. When you can clearly express your emotions, you are better able to get your own needs met, as a result you become less likely to be dependent on others.
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« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2013, 08:57:54 PM »

This is one of the first steps I worked on in recovery and one I still pay attention to today.

Anyone else working on identifying emotions?

How is this step working for you?
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