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« Reply #30 on: August 08, 2013, 12:08:48 PM »

I think a lot can be learned from seeing how people interact with their pets when they have a PD.  any other thoughts on BPD and pets?
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« Reply #31 on: August 08, 2013, 01:38:05 PM »

My x had a German Shepherd, locked in a cage 20 hours of the day, fed it those doggy biscults only. Used to bite it's ear when it mis-behaved (in her eyes) until it let out a yelp. In the 18 months i was with her, we took it for 2 walks, 2 Fffffing walks? This is a 2 year old, a dog that needs to be active, regular walks, running about, chasing balls, swimming in rivers, what ever pet shepherds do & i'm pretty sure, you need to feed it some meat. She would go on holiday (without me) me offers to take care of the dog, no no as i hell allowed, had another so called friend round to see to it, errrr every 2 days, What the heck? this dog left in a cage for 48 hours at a time? Me rebeling against her behaviour towards her dog caused a few re-cycles. Just like me sneaking the cage door open to let the dog out for a stretch caused arguments. Not my dog, the dog is too hyper when it gets out, yes i agree the dog was hyper, friendly yes, licking, playful, amazing dog that craved attention (from me) to the point my x had to drag it from me, becasue it was clinging to me like a scared child, but that 2 minutes of freedom every so often it had, must of felt bliss for it, no wonder it was hyper. The treatment of her dog was a big Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post) for me, but i wont go in to Red flag/bad  (click to insert in post) on this thread.
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« Reply #32 on: August 08, 2013, 03:01:32 PM »

Standfree,

Too bad you couldn't take the dog from her! Some people really shouldn't have pets!
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« Reply #33 on: August 08, 2013, 03:39:57 PM »

Yup... . She has three cats and two dogs. She likes soft cuddly animals. She also likes meth and hardcore porn.
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