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« Reply #1 on: July 21, 2013, 04:32:33 PM » |
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Southerngirl,
Good to hear that you made the right decision ! My ex BPD functioned very well at work, never had seen anything in her behavior that made me doubt about anything... . So I understand it very well his attorney is blinded as well... .
I agree completely on what you say concerning kids. I had a very good relation with my stephdaughter who was 8 when I started my relationship with her borderline mom. She is now 12 years old and has serious emotional problems. She can't handle a loss of any kind in her life, still cries over her granddad who died 6 years ago, her aunt two and a half years ago, over a dog almost two years ago and a cat 8 months ago, even over me, as she misses me.
Everything points into the direction that she is emotionally seriously damaged, also as she has heard some of our fights, the fight with her husband etc... . And even has seen the results of a fight between her mom and her husband at the time.
At school she has suffered from harassment several times, and I discovered this much faster then her mom, who was still in denial on the matter.
Even worse I'm afraid that she may have BPD behavior as well. It is so toxic for everybody to be in a relationship with a borderline, who refuses to get any serious help.
It is very unfortunate that our system where I live, doesn't really bother on the matter and consequences... .
Do not feel guilty, you know very well why this can't go on any further. Good to hear you have no regrets.
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