All his wants and needs, as per his 'timelines'. I think its about control and domination for them.
So true. Initially he seemed to be interested in what i wanted and like\dislike. Since it was a LDR just like yours, he tried to control most things i did later on. He would sulk and then get angry if i did anything fun - going for parties, for concerts, dance classes, guitar classes or go out for drinks with my friends.
Even when he knew i am out with my friends, he would call in a hours time or so. Checking on me every especially when i am out. I mistook control for care.